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Mom Genes: Inside the New Science of Our Ancient Maternal Instinct

by Abigail Tucker · 336 pages · ~6 hrs

Science & TechnologyPsychology & Mind

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Motherhood changes the brain in ways that science is only beginning to understand, and journalist Abigail Tucker explores the latest research on maternal transformation. Drawing on neuroscience, evolutionary biology, and her own experience with four children, Tucker examines how pregnancy and caregiving reshape neural architecture, alter sensory perception, and reorganize priorities at the deepest levels. The changes begin during pregnancy, when fetal cells cross the placenta and establish themselves in the mother's body, a phenomenon called microchimerism. They continue through birth, breastfeeding, and years of caregiving, as the brain rewires itself to prioritize offspring survival. Tucker addresses questions that mothers often wonder about: Why does anxiety increase? Why does memory seem to falter? Why do we sometimes mimic our own mothers despite intending otherwise? The answers involve hormones like oxytocin and cortisol, brain regions like the amygdala and prefrontal cortex, and evolutionary pressures that shaped mammalian reproduction. Tucker is careful to distinguish biological tendencies from destiny, noting that fathers also undergo neural changes and that social context shapes how biology expresses itself. The book challenges both dismissive attitudes toward maternal transformation and essentialist claims about motherhood. Readers who are mothers, who have mothers, or who are curious about how experience sculpts the brain will find Tucker's synthesis accessible and illuminating.

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